Most people would like to change something about their lives. The ability to change is within each of us, however, we do not always make the changes we want, or even know where, or how to begin. Both pros and cons to making the desired change likely exist, and these competing ideas can often serve to keep us "stuck. To make matters worse, making a change typically means giving something up, and when we give something up, we replace it with something new, usually the unknown. Confronting the unknown often produces feelings of anxiety and uncertainty. Many people resist change, despite the desire to change, because they feel very uncomfortable when they cannot predict their own feelings, responses, or what might happen in the future because of this change. Fear of the unknown can then become another obstacle to change. The process is difficult, and change is never easy, or we would be doing it already!
Common Experiences I Help With:, Feeling chronically overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally numb, Struggles with trust, intimacy, or boundaries in relationships, Intense self-criticism, shame, or guilt, Difficulty feeling safe—in your body, emotions, or relationships, Rebuilding emotional regulation and nervous system resilience, Learning to feel safe in your body and connected to others, Developing a compassionate, empowered relationship with yourself
Trauma-informed, somatic, and relationship focused individual psychotherapy for healing & growth : I help adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally shut down reconnect with themselves and others. Whether you're navigating relationship struggles, intense self-criticism, or the long-term impact of trauma, therapy offers a space to heal. My approach is trauma-informed, somatic, and rooted in nervous system regulation. Together, we explore the deeper patterns shaped by early experiences and develop tools for emotional resilience, internal safety, and meaningful connection.
I work especially well with sensitive, reflective individuals seeking transformation—not just symptom relief. Sessions are collaborative, experiential, and tailored to your unique needs. You’re welcome here—whoever you are, wherever you're starting from.
Help for Depression & Anxiety, Counselling and Therapy Services, Marriage Therapy, Couples Therapy, individual therapy, Increase Self-esteem and Self-confidence
Without a shadow of a doubt, the most important component of any relationship is communication. Anu Sharma-Niwa is a registered psychologist that has been serving individuals, couples and families in Calgary for over 10 years. Her goal is to help you increase your confidence, feel accepted and loved in your relationships, manage stress and anxiety, improve your communication skills and your overall emotional health. Visit our website for more information and resources. Call us today to schedule a consultation and learn the benefits of communication.
In my 30 years of research on job satisfaction, personal growth, and career change with over 45,000 individuals, a pattern emerged. Individuals, who exhibited a Quester constellation of traits, were happier, healthier, and more successful than those who did not. They possessed that "extra something" that could get them through crises and transitions. These Quester qualities that enabled individuals to manage crises and transitions are common in very young children. Unfortunately, we tend to lose them as we age. The good news is, they can be "relearned." I wrote my award-winning, best seller, Questers Dare to Change Your Job and Life, to help you understand and manage the feelings that come from your quest for satisfaction and success - to help you understand change and empower yourself to manage changes occurring within and around you.
Adult Children Of Alcoholics And Co-dependency Issues, Grief And Loss, Some Addictions, Depression, Divorce And Rebuilding, Anger, Stress Management, Betrayal, Life Transitions, Anxiety, Separation, Dating Coaching
Most of us will experience some kind of challenge/conflict, change, loss, or just feeling stuck and off balance at some point in our life and in our relationships. Counselling can help you work through and resolve what you are struggling with, learn more tools and strategies, and gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your partner, or your life. Working through issues and finding a healthy balance allows you to feel better about yourself and more energized. Couples counselling can help you and your partner improve not only your communication and resolve issues, but improve the quality of and enrich your relationship.